In Memoriam: Denise T. "Denny" Davidoff |
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Denny Davidoff speaks to the 2017 General Assembly in New Orleans. Photo (c) Christopher L. Walton
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Reflections shared by Rev. Susan Frederick-Gray, UUA President, at The Unitarian Church in Westport, Westport, CT, in January 2018.
On behalf of the Unitarian Universalist Association and the wider UU movement, I offer to Denny’s family, her closest friends, and this her beloved congregation – our deepest condolences and love.
On this day, the thoughts and prayers of our wider Association are with you, and all of us, as we celebrate Denny’s life.
More so than anyone else, Denny left her mark on just about every major UU institution of her time, including the UU Women’s Federation, the Ministerial Fellowship Committee, the Commission on Appraisal, the General Assembly Planning Committee, the board of the Church of the Larger Fellowship, the UUA Board of Trustees, and, most recently, Meadville-Lombard Theological School.
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Her commitment will always be remembered in historical ways as Moderator and as the 2006 recipient of the UUA’s Distinguished Service Award, an award she shared with her beloved husband, Jerry. But it will also be felt in ways that may be harder to name. Last June, Denny attended her 50th consecutive General Assembly. Her leadership and presence to our faith and its institutions has and will continue to shape Unitarian Universalism well into the future.
Personally, Denny’s leadership had a profound impact on me. Denny was the Moderator of the UUA when I first became aware of the larger movement. The first General Assembly I attended was in 2001 in Cleveland – Denny’s last as Moderator. The way she moderated the plenary sessions with wit and insight, as well as an obvious love, not just for the faith, but for the people of our faith, inspired in me an abiding commitment to the health and vitality of our wider institution.
In a 2001 UU World interview, Denny said: “The old saw says the preacher has one sermon. Mine has been, ‘If you love this religion, learn more about it, learn its history, and go out and speak it. Go out and be it in the world, not just in the comfort of your home church. Get out there and be a Unitarian Universalist.’”
Denny’s profound love for Unitarian Universalism was reflected in all she did. She inspired and deepened the commitment of so many. The best way to honor her memory is to follow her advice: let us go out and be Unitarian Universalists in the world, every day, and in every place – with courage, generosity, fierceness and above all, love. So may it be.
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